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Postby Jackmn » Tue Dec 02, 2003 2:39 am

Quote: from Mas Tnega on 5:00 pm on Dec. 1, 2003[br]Here we have it, an embodiment of greed. Someone with no apparent understanding of the concept of 'love'.

Pity Jackmn

(Edited by Mas Tnega at 5:02 pm on Dec. 1, 2003)
Love is the result of Darwinian evolution; nothing more than a survival attribute. It is a sequence of electrochemical reactions in the brain, no different than any other emotion.

There is nothing 'special', or 'magical' about it. And logically, it serves little purpose in modern society.

(Edited by Jackmn at 1:41 am on Dec. 2, 2003)
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Postby OutBreak » Tue Dec 02, 2003 3:25 am

jack i really feal bad for you, i for one met this girl at the beginning of summer, and im usually pretty shy, but when i went to work one day, i told my self now or never. and to my surprise she felt the same way, and weve been dating since, its will be 6 months on the 8th. but the best advice i can give is this:

say what you feel
feel what you say

just tell her how you feel no matter how corny or stupid it sounds. be honest, but dont tell her you feel somethin you dont.

remember say what you feel, but make sure thats how you feel before you say it, thats just somethin i live by. and girlfreinds arent a hassle, if you guys get along, and if it is a hassle it wasnt meant to be and you should end it before you get your self hurt.
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Postby DuctMasta » Tue Dec 02, 2003 5:12 am

 OutBreak- that was beautiful.
 I honestly couldn't agree with you more.  If it is just a relationship on MSN, then you can say anything you want without feeling stupid, or acting like a moron in front of her.  Tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't feel the same way about you, then thats too bad, but you'll get over it.  If she does, then more power to ya.
   I actually met my girlfriend on MSN.  She lives in Minnesota, and I live across the country, but we started talking, got to know each other really well, and then during the Summer, I caught a plane up there and met her in person.  We are still going strong (Just a little success story to motivate you.)
Good Luck, and remember... You can't rape the willing :wink:

(Edited by DuctMasta at 2:13 pm on Dec. 2, 2003)
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Postby Coldfire26 » Tue Dec 02, 2003 6:14 am

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Postby Zero Override » Tue Dec 02, 2003 7:07 am

She's a admin on one of the sites I go on.... which makes It hard. Give me some tips on what to see ect.
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Postby Phydaux » Tue Dec 02, 2003 10:08 am

Quote: from Jackmn on 1:39 am on Dec. 2, 2003[br]
Quote: from Mas Tnega on 5:00 pm on Dec. 1, 2003[br]Here we have it, an embodiment of greed. Someone with no apparent understanding of the concept of 'love'.

Pity Jackmn

(Edited by Mas Tnega at 5:02 pm on Dec. 1, 2003)
Love is the result of Darwinian evolution; nothing more than a survival attribute. It is a sequence of electrochemical reactions in the brain, no different than any other emotion.

There is nothing 'special', or 'magical' about it. And logically, it serves little purpose in modern society.

(Edited by Jackmn at 1:41 am on Dec. 2, 2003)
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Postby Phydaux » Tue Dec 02, 2003 10:19 am

Quote: from Spectre4542 on 1:00 am on Dec. 2, 2003[br]I must say man that you're encraoching upon the gates of hell here. Cyber relationships never work. Plus girls are pains in the asses anyway (as girlfriends, no offense to any girls here or anywhere.) it's just a hassle. But if you really feel the need, simply don't hold back. Say everything that you want to even if you think it's stupid, because it's what's true. Ponder that for a while.
Wow, you must've had some crap experiences with girlfriends.
I love my girlfriend, she's everything I want. And we do everything together, she's my best friend and a *great* lover.
It sounds like you just need to find a decent girl. (Or wait till your older, and have a more mature relationship.)
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Postby Iris » Tue Dec 02, 2003 1:03 pm

Quote: from TheRaven on 5:52 pm on Dec. 1, 2003[br]Someone get Iris in on this, that may be of actual use.


So here I am.

You want girls to like you? Depends on what type of girl you want. Different strokes for different folks.

I will be lying to you if I said just be yourself all the time, that's not how it works, kiddo. The rule is, BE YOURSELF AND THEN SOME. It doesn't take extra effort to outdo yourself a bit once in a while, like improving your image a little, grooming yourself a little bit more. not only am i talking about your hair, i mean a bit of everything: your walk, your talk. fix yourself up before you leave your room, brush your teeth, think before you speak, and most of all, don't forget to smile. i may sound cliche, but that's what i and my friends look for in a guy, someone who not only looks good, but also stays good.

Say anything that you want even if it's stupid? Fine, as long as you only speak about yourself. And you don't do that to just any girl you meet, you only do that to those whom you know you can trust. Like I said, not all women were born the same. Some have more tact, some have no brakes in their mouths. Get it? Say what you feel, but feel what you say.

By this time that you're thinking a bit seriously about finding a girlfriend, you have to act your age. You don't have to pretend, just do things that will make you look better, act better, feel better, and then you'll be better, you know? If you can do that, others will feel it too, and they'll feel good around you, and they'll want to keep that feeling all the time. Especially women. You don't have to take my word for it, ask anyone here who has a steady girlfriend.

And for those who think that girlfriends are just a pain in the ass, well I guess other girls may feel the same thing about you then, and then the world will be rid of asses like you and I because nobody will want to feel the joy and pain of falling in love. Makes sense?

(Edited by Iris at 12:05 pm on Dec. 2, 2003)
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Postby Adriac » Tue Dec 02, 2003 1:22 pm

Quote: from Jackmn on 8:39 pm on Dec. 1, 2003[br]
Quote: from Mas Tnega on 5:00 pm on Dec. 1, 2003[br]Here we have it, an embodiment of greed. Someone with no apparent understanding of the concept of 'love'.

Pity Jackmn

(Edited by Mas Tnega at 5:02 pm on Dec. 1, 2003)
Love is the result of Darwinian evolution; nothing more than a survival attribute. It is a sequence of electrochemical reactions in the brain, no different than any other emotion.

There is nothing 'special', or 'magical' about it. And logically, it serves little purpose in modern society.

(Edited by Jackmn at 1:41 am on Dec. 2, 2003)


Actually, there is something special about love. It is the single greatest natural dopamine response (i.e., short of crack). You gotta have some fun, eh?

And I can guarantee you that your contribution to the gene pool is worth more than any money that you make, but should you disagree, I can guarantee that if you don't care about having fun you're worth a lot more to this society dead than alive.
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Postby Phydaux » Tue Dec 02, 2003 2:08 pm

Quote: from Zero Override on 6:07 am on Dec. 2, 2003[br]She's a admin on one of the sites I go on.... which makes It hard. Give me some tips on what to see ect.
What to see? You might need to start by using the correct words. ;)

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Postby Coldfire26 » Tue Dec 02, 2003 2:10 pm

Technically, NOT having fun gives you a greater value to society. not that i'd like to not-have fun.
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Postby Ami Kato » Tue Dec 02, 2003 5:35 pm

Quote: from Jackmn on 5:39 pm on Dec. 1, 2003[br]
Quote: from Mas Tnega on 5:00 pm on Dec. 1, 2003[br]Here we have it, an embodiment of greed. Someone with no apparent understanding of the concept of 'love'.

Pity Jackmn

(Edited by Mas Tnega at 5:02 pm on Dec. 1, 2003)
Love is the result of Darwinian evolution; nothing more than a survival attribute. It is a sequence of electrochemical reactions in the brain, no different than any other emotion.

There is nothing 'special', or 'magical' about it. And logically, it serves little purpose in modern society.

(Edited by Jackmn at 1:41 am on Dec. 2, 2003)


How sad... Everything in this mans life is darwinisms. I pity you greatly Jackmn... I knew someone that you, didn't even believe in love (I shalln't mention name, as the person frequents this board), but then I told him to give it a shot. That was last year. He's engaged now. Find someone for you, Jackmn, not everything needs explaination...
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Postby ODDin » Tue Dec 02, 2003 6:13 pm

On the one hand, Jackmn is right, I believe. It began as a survival machanism... but in the modern society there are really many flaws in it.
However, one can talk like that only when it's just theory for him. When you fall in love, it doesn't matter if it's a survival mechanism. All you want to do is to be with that girl, talk to her, do more certain stuff, and you want her to want the same.

So, I believe that you, Jackmn, never knew love.
What a pity.




P.S. I wasn't shy, and I told my girl that I love her. Like it helped...
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Postby Adriac » Tue Dec 02, 2003 10:16 pm

Excellent point. It would be - literally - like saying that the response to cocaine is just a survival mechanism while high on crack.
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Postby jimmy8159 » Tue Dec 02, 2003 10:26 pm

Quote: from FrostShard on 9:22 pm on Dec. 1, 2003[br]I have absolutely no idea.

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Rubber penguin?  Rubber penguin?  You can't use a rubber penguin!  It's a rubber chicken!

Anyway, try sending her some from of subliminal messaging, you know like...

cucumber llamaspleenYOULOVEMEYOUWANTTOGOOUTWITHMEoompaloompadoopitydoopineappleYOULOVEMEYOUWANTTOGOOUTWITHMErubberchikenquelquefois...

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Is that a rubber chicken with a pully in the middle?

EDIT - Sorry for stretching the board.

(Edited by jimmy8159 at 9:27 pm on Dec. 2, 2003)

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