Quote: from TheRaven on 5:52 pm on Dec. 1, 2003[br]Someone get Iris in on this, that may be of actual use.
So here I am.
You want girls to like you? Depends on what type of girl you want. Different strokes for different folks.
I will be lying to you if I said just be yourself all the time, that's not how it works, kiddo. The rule is, BE YOURSELF AND THEN SOME. It doesn't take extra effort to outdo yourself a bit once in a while, like improving your image a little, grooming yourself a little bit more. not only am i talking about your hair, i mean a bit of everything: your walk, your talk. fix yourself up before you leave your room, brush your teeth, think before you speak, and most of all, don't forget to smile. i may sound cliche, but that's what i and my friends look for in a guy, someone who not only looks good, but also stays good.
Say anything that you want even if it's stupid? Fine, as long as you only speak about yourself. And you don't do that to just any girl you meet, you only do that to those whom you know you can trust. Like I said, not all women were born the same. Some have more tact, some have no brakes in their mouths. Get it? Say what you feel, but feel what you say.
By this time that you're thinking a bit seriously about finding a girlfriend, you have to act your age. You don't have to pretend, just do things that will make you look better, act better, feel better, and then you'll be better, you know? If you can do that, others will feel it too, and they'll feel good around you, and they'll want to keep that feeling all the time. Especially women. You don't have to take my word for it, ask anyone here who has a steady girlfriend.
And for those who think that girlfriends are just a pain in the ass, well I guess other girls may feel the same thing about you then, and then the world will be rid of asses like you and I because nobody will want to feel the joy and pain of falling in love. Makes sense?
(Edited by Iris at 12:05 pm on Dec. 2, 2003)