Hey! My real name is Steve. But I give people the choice to call me Stephen as well, if it suits them. Call me Stevie, though, and I punch them
The thing about being called Stephen is that nearly everyone in the world tends to write "Steven" which is utterly incorrect, and very, very annoying for me. I am
not called Steven. I am called Stephen, and I consider it distinct, even though it sounds precisely the same as Steven. It similarly annoys me when I correct somebody and they say "Oh, I though Steven was the proper spelling." I've just told you it's Stephen. It's
my name. So if my forum username was Stephen, and people still called me Steven (strangely enough, even people who've only ever seen my name in writing can still get it wrong), what then?
I understand this is a totally different beast to the tricky nature of capitalisation - but as most people drop the capitalisation of the word "I" and its derivatives when writing on the Internet, I think it would be safe to say that it's kind of a moot point.
If xander asks you not to misspell his name, for all that you bitch about it, why not just be a dear and oblige him? You may not give a shit, but he clearly does. I tend not to change people's names when I type them, as they tend to be quite attached to them, and I don't like to piss people off for no reason.
A lot of people call me Shiny or Gerbil (or even ShinyGerbil) and I don't really mind, but if I did then I'd say so and expect them to use the correct spelling in future. If they didn't oblige, I'd probably just ignore them, as they're clearly just being deliberately antagonistic.
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As for the tool, I believe it is a plugin, although I do remember some people claiming to offer conversion services for thse without 3DSMax, and I think there may even have been a browser-based editor for Darwinia's .shp files somewhere, but I don't remember where.