Iv tried port forwarding, turning off everything on my side.. no results, we both have same routers.

Keep getting connection attempt 1,2,3,4 .. for the record, this happends in Defcon to.

Me and a friend just bought Multiwinia on steam, we cant host and or join each other's games but we can join other ppls game ..

This is _VERY_ annoying .. we have turned off firewall and everything .. still dont help.